Social Media and Suicide Among Teens

Social Media and Suicide Among Teens

Digital media, including social media, became a centerpiece of day to day life at a seemingly exponential rate. Before I graduated high school in 2006, I remember many evenings spent …

Family Stress Test

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Family Stress Test Stress is a natural and normal “by-product” of every family’s life. In fact, family stress can bring out the best of us: as we stretch to meet …

Disorganized Attachment

Disorganized Attachment

Mary Ainsworth’s work on attachment identified three attachment categories (secure, insecure avoidant, and insecure ambivalent/resistant). The development of the disorganized/disoriented classification evolved as a part of Mary Main’s doctoral research …

Work Is Like Water

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It quickly spreads and seeps in to fill spaces in our personal lives. But there are ways to stop the flow. I was an hour into my surf session when …

5 Types of OCD

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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder. Many people have a stereotype of the condition in their minds. They think about the person who checks the stove thirty times before …

Why You Never Seem to Have Enough Time

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We feel pressed for time due to our own psychology, not just the tyranny of the clock. Right now, I can feel the tight squeeze of stress in my stomach. …

Panic Attacks: Common Symptoms and How to Cope

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Panic attacks are the main symptom of panic disorder​, but they can occur with other mental health and medical conditions. These attacks are characterized by a variety of physical, emotional, …

The Dangers of Being Too Hard On Yourself

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You can easily recognize when one of your friends is being too hard on themselves. But it’s a bit harder to self-diagnose… There’s a mantra that pervades our culture: “No …

What Is the Dunning-Kruger Effect?

What Is the Dunning-Kruger Effect?

The Dunning-Kruger effect is a type of cognitive bias in which people believe that they are smarter and more capable than they really are. Essentially, low ability people do not …