Digital media, including social media, became a centerpiece of day to day life at a seemingly exponential rate. Before I graduated high school in 2006, I remember many evenings spent …
Couples Therapy Palo Alto: Relationships in the Tech World.
Being a Marriage and Family Therapist in the Bay Area specializing in Couples Therapy Palo Alto, means I have the privilege to meet clients from very diverse backgrounds. One of …
Family Stress Test
Family Stress Test Stress is a natural and normal “by-product” of every family’s life. In fact, family stress can bring out the best of us: as we stretch to meet …
Disorganized Attachment
Mary Ainsworth’s work on attachment identified three attachment categories (secure, insecure avoidant, and insecure ambivalent/resistant). The development of the disorganized/disoriented classification evolved as a part of Mary Main’s doctoral research …
How Well Are You Listening to Your Children and Others?
When our children come to us with a problem, we usually want to help them. So we console, interpret, advise, distract or praise. Other times, we feel we must teach …
Stress Can Make You Sick. Take Steps to Reduce It.
In his new book, “The Stress Solution,” Dr. Rangan Chatterjee offers advice on countering the damaging effects of chronic stress. Not long ago Dr. Rangan Chatterjee had a patient with …
Work Is Like Water
It quickly spreads and seeps in to fill spaces in our personal lives. But there are ways to stop the flow. I was an hour into my surf session when …
New Insights Into People Who Withdraw From Society
Hikikomori is a dark term that describes people who stay holed up in their homes, or even just their bedrooms, isolated from everyone except their family, for many months or …
5 Types of OCD
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder. Many people have a stereotype of the condition in their minds. They think about the person who checks the stove thirty times before …
Honk if life’s moving too slowly? That’s not the answer
Technology should leave us more free time, but we’re more impatient than ever. Is there a solution? You needn’t spend long in a city where the honking of car horns …
If You’re Given Three Wishes, Don’t Forget About Happiness
Money, power, and fame don’t make us happy, yet we spend much of our lives chasing after them. Success first, then happiness, we tell ourselves. But perhaps we’ve got it …
Anger Can Be Contagious — Here’s How To Stop The Spread
Even if you’re not aware of it, it’s likely that your emotions will influence someone around you today. This can happen during our most basic exchanges, say on your commute …
Why You Never Seem to Have Enough Time
We feel pressed for time due to our own psychology, not just the tyranny of the clock. Right now, I can feel the tight squeeze of stress in my stomach. …
Panic Attacks: Common Symptoms and How to Cope
Panic attacks are the main symptom of panic disorder, but they can occur with other mental health and medical conditions. These attacks are characterized by a variety of physical, emotional, …
Why Experiencing Joy and Pain in a Group Is So Powerful
Today, our culture is in crisis. Many people have retreated to their ideological bunkers to hate from afar, dehumanizing others rather than risk having real, meaningful conversations across their differences. …
There is No Shame In Taking Care of Your Mental Health
When stress got to be too much for TED Fellow Sangu Delle, he had to confront his own deep prejudice: that men shouldn’t take care of their mental health. In …
Why Physical Touch Matters for Your Well-Being
Physical contact seems to be declining in modern life. But what happens when we lack human touch? Earlier this year, Tiffany Field, head of the Touch Research Institute at the …
The Dangers of Being Too Hard On Yourself
You can easily recognize when one of your friends is being too hard on themselves. But it’s a bit harder to self-diagnose… There’s a mantra that pervades our culture: “No …
What Is the Dunning-Kruger Effect?
The Dunning-Kruger effect is a type of cognitive bias in which people believe that they are smarter and more capable than they really are. Essentially, low ability people do not …


















